anagramofbrat: (haters to the left)
anagramofbrat ([personal profile] anagramofbrat) wrote2009-08-17 11:01 am
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Eeegh

A well thought out commentary on why exactly George Sodini was an asshole, and why poly people are in fact NOT greedy for having multiple partners (may be triggery for some folk reading this), by way of [livejournal.com profile] tacit.

By the way, if you're even remotely poly/sex-postive you should read [livejournal.com profile] tacit. He's pretty fabulous.

Also I need a poly icon.

[identity profile] harinezumi.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Why should anyone care about what some dead nut had to say, and what's wrong with being greedy?

[identity profile] anagramofbrat.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 03:54 pm (UTC)(link)
dr, huh?

[identity profile] austingoddess.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 04:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Because a fair number of live people agree with the dead nut. In public.

[identity profile] sixswordsamurai.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm fairly sure [livejournal.com profile] tacit and I would fight more than talk peacefully. while I understand and grok being
*-postitive, that brand of granola poly makes my ass itch.

[identity profile] anagramofbrat.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Curious as to why you consider him granola poly?

[identity profile] sixswordsamurai.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Word choices mostly. The idea that we "shouldn't" objectify people. That's against human nature. We objectify as a matter of survival. we don't want to call it that, but it's what it is. People are prizes to be won, mates to be acquired. attempting to rail against that speak to a level of granola-headed-ness that I generally can't abide.
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[personal profile] nounsandverbs 2009-08-17 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)
You say granola ... I say civilized.

[identity profile] sixswordsamurai.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 10:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe. but civilization is a lie that we put onto the "Mate-Kill-Feed-Repeat" that we call life.
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[personal profile] nounsandverbs 2009-08-17 10:38 pm (UTC)(link)
You can feel free to call that life, if you want to.

[identity profile] sixswordsamurai.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
You and I always seem to have this particular disagreement, what I'm doing is recognizing the animalistic, primal side of our existence. You don't see that. I can respect that.
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[personal profile] nounsandverbs 2009-08-17 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I see it ... as a SIDE of our many-sided existence. Not the only side. I don't deny the animalistic, primal part of us is there. I just think civilization is the process of learning to temper that -- and in some cases, overcome it -- with reason.

[identity profile] sixswordsamurai.livejournal.com 2009-08-17 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I always found reason to just be the next evolution of that animalistic nature. we learned big words, and learned tools to learn how to mate, kill, and feed better. Civilization was spawned from this. At least that's my opinion on the subject.